Jul 15, 2021Anger, Hostility, and Rage“What do you mean? I don’t have any anger!” “I’m just being assertive when I tell my boss off for his micromanaging.” “I can’t help it! I just get so angry. I have to punch something.” The above phrases belie misconceptions common in our society. These errors are due to…Anger5 min read
Jul 5, 2021Emotion Inflammation | The Effects of Pre-Existing Vulnerability FactorsTreja entered the coffee shop with great excitement. It had been such a long time since she had made time for a social life. She was finally grabbing a few minutes to meet with her new friend, Sonya. They had met a few weeks back at her cousin’s birthday party…Emotions4 min read
Jun 29, 2021Navigating the Two PainsPressing down hard on my suitcase, I am scarcely able to finish zipping it before I hear the car horn signal time to go. As if watching myself from the upper corner of the ceiling, I watch myself walk out the door, leaving behind everything and everyone I know, off…Boundaries9 min read
Jun 21, 2021The Two Kinds of KnowingAs I lay there on the floor, drained of every last ounce of energy, mind blank, I somehow knew the right thing to do. It was time to leave the land I had come to think of as home and return to the US. As the days and weeks followed…Psychology9 min read
Jun 14, 2021Drawing the Lines: Creating BoundariesSurvivor to Thriver: blogs are written for those who have a history of trauma, battle shame, deal with self-destructive and/or unhelpful behaviors, or grapple with relationship issues, check out these writings. Boundaries are an important part of life. They help us see where we end and others begin. They define and protect us. They let good things in and keep trouble away. In a way, they are like a fence around someone’s house or property. Sound pretty good, don’t they? Think…Setting Boundaries4 min read
Jun 10, 2021Why Do I Feel So Bad? The Effects of Emotion InflammationThe Effects of Pre-Existing Vulnerability Factors Treja entered the coffee shop with great excitement. It had been such a long time since she had made time for a social life. She was finally grabbing a few minutes to meet with her new friend, Sonya. They had met a few weeks back at her cousin’s birthday party…Mindfulness4 min read
Jun 7, 2021When is Enough Enough?I sit at my desk, transfixed. On the screen before me, in all its grandeur, is my weekly schedule. How did I do this again? Search as I may, I find little breathing room, little margin. Closing the calendar, lest tears of frustration begin to fall, I half-heartedly move my…Balanced Life8 min read
May 25, 2021Three Myths of Self-CareI walk toward my office door wondering how I will finagle the key out from the load filling my arms and hijacking my hands. …Self Care9 min read
Apr 26, 2021Spring Mindfulness Scavenger HuntYou know how it is — you start the day with the best of intentions for self-care, making wise and healthy choices, and dutifully adding checkmarks to your do-do list. Then, life happens. Things get muddled quickly — especially in these days where little-to-no work-life balance exists for many sudden…Mindfulness2 min read
Apr 13, 2021Pandemic Fatigue: Embracing Sadness on the Road to HealingJust over a year ago, a tsunami of change hit our planet. We could not see it with our eyes and most of us could not feel it in any way other than in the all-encompassing changes that made their way into every facet of life. Unbeknownst to us, and…Depression9 min read